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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 22 points 6 months ago (7 children)

my therapist asked me who I marry in stardew valley and told me who they go for

I feel like we know so much more about each other now

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 22 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Wearing one of my biggest t-shirts and it's long enough that it's almost dress-like now that I'm smaller. Feels good.

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[–] magi@hexbear.net 22 points 6 months ago (18 children)

We just finished a batch of Ginger + Soy, Tofu stir fry

It's trans relevant because Soy mari-smug

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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 22 points 6 months ago

Hey trans thread, I just helped a gal amend her birth certificate. Being trans is alright, but helping other trans people? That's the real good shit.

Working a culturally-specific job is like the best move I've ever made for my own emotional wellbeing.

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 22 points 6 months ago

Damn I'm really just walking out the house like not trying and people talking about how cute my outfits are. Sorry I can't help it I'm just really cute πŸ˜”πŸ‘―

[–] rainn@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Even if I feel like I'm bottling things up I again revert to lurking and not saying anything

Even then, I can't externalize without being very serious, cause "silly" is childish and childish is bad in my head

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[–] silent_water@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (4 children)

wife: I'm happy to be alive! what did you do to me?? ahhhhhhh

I can fix her, but it actually worked

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (4 children)

sometimes you stay up till 3 am and that's fine because it was fun

nn niko-sleep

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[–] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (6 children)

on the other side of another night on shrooms, this time with one friend and fallout london. i found myself using wasd to scroll on this page and realized my brain was still fucked up

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (1 children)

One of these days my gf is going to slip up and I’m going to have to have sex with Shadow the Hedgehog madeline-sadeline

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

Was it a huge tactical error to be honest with the kkkanada gubmint about my gender on a disability application? I just realised I have no idea if this will disadvantage me or whatever, or if it even matters. Like, are they gonna be fuckers?

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (3 children)
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[–] Starlet@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (2 children)
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[–] Shinhoshi@lemmygrad.ml 21 points 6 months ago (17 children)
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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Went out with my hair done and a girl top, And when I caught my reflection, sometimes instead of a guy, I saw an ugly chick

This is progress, folks lea-happy

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[–] milistanaccount09@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (5 children)

the amount of dating drama the heterosexual can get into pales in comparison to the humble polyamorous trans girl

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Y'all are dming eachother??? I've been using this site for like 4 years between different accounts and I think I've given or received a dm... three times.

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[–] PaX@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

friend-visitor-1 So now that there's endocrine disrupting chemicals everywhere, especially in the affordable food, it's like free HRT right? Haha

No, they just make you fat and tired all the time. They also give you cancer friend-visitor-4

friend-visitor-3

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[–] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (12 children)

this instance is way better than libshithole i came from

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[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (4 children)

The transfem urge to take over the world.

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[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 21 points 6 months ago (17 children)

If I slowly transition silently like a frog in a pot of boiling water, do you think the cishets would notice?

What if I played it off as something that just kinda happened on its own, like I was the last one to notice?

If nothing else it'd be a good gag.

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (13 children)

So trans people having a higher incidence of Autism and mental disorders is legit right? My therapist gave me one of those eval questionnaires for OCD and apparently I do be obssessing (not so much compulsing, although she said it is still possible to have one and not the other)

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Damn it feels good to be a trans woman 😎

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

My subscription to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns is still pending, can someone get on it and accept it? /s

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[–] milk_thief@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Tired of internet arguments. I hate the culture that makes everything feel like one-up-manship

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (8 children)

My breasts have felt sorer and sorer the last few days and today they legit hurt like they used to the first couple months on E, what gives? bocchi-cry I'm over 6 months in now, I thought I was done with the super sore era.

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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (6 children)

Need to find a local trans discord that isn't so horny all the time. Like compliments are pretty nice but I have a bf!

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago (2 children)

BLEGH I woke up all SWEATY and I posted comments in the WRONG MEGA, shameful and unpleasant kitty-birthday-sad

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[–] regularassbitch@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago

feeling good. glad to have people around me who actually see and understand who i am and what i'm doing

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 21 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (13 children)

chat, what color should I dye my hair? ridiculous colors only, I’m not going to dye my hair a natural color. I’m aspiring to [brightly colored hair] and pronouns.

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[–] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 20 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (5 children)

in that gender zone where im like 'but what is a woman then? Gender is just a construct, so what even is this?' then i realize that i didn't fall out of a coconut tree and I exist in the context of all in which I live and what came before me

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 20 points 6 months ago (2 children)

really awful horrifying sexual trauma processing ft Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal GirlWeirdly, despite the fact I stopped having rejection-sensitivity-fueled breakdowns about A Novels, I find Paul is still giving me psychic damage, maybe more now than before. Not in an obvious way, but to where it fucks with my mental state and makes me wobbly and weird and anxious and worried.

Literally I think what's happening is that, to an extent, some certain depictions of sex acts between men will fucking freak me out. My ex and I were both ostensibly sad little gay boys when we met, so uh there was a lot of that, and a lot of that did not stop when transition started, which is where the trauma mixes in. The only memories I have of "male sexuality" (as in ostensibly being a guy during sex) and the associated terms and acts are horrible and traumatising. I guess it's to the point where when similar things show up in a weirdbook, psychic damage.

This makes sense since I have not really read gay-dude sex before, this is kind of the first time, Paul is a lovely complicated little weird thing. But it's kind of fucking lame and I don't really love the idea that certain kinds of sex just EXISTING will trigger my fucking trauma, that really distresses me. I guess that's reality though? So here's to not reading about dudes having sex I guess...

I hate this, this is terrible, I've been feeling really good about all the sex stuff recently, but I guess it makes sense I would stumble into "damage" at some point. Blegh...

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 20 points 6 months ago (29 children)

complaining about my envyEnvy is actual brain poison that my brain cannot stop drinking, holy fuck what is wrong with me.

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 20 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Looked in the mirror and noticed that my hair is now at the perfect length cat-trans

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 20 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Parents misgendering me again. aubrey-pain

I don’t have the heart to correct them, I’m moving out in a few months.
Hopefully the next time they see me they will feel stupid ever having done it.

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 20 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I packed curry for lunch and I get to eat it in 10 minutes lfg

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