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Hi everyone and welcome to the new Megathread :) For my first Mega I want to share a special interest of mine: the magnetic field and how to understand its behavior intuitively.

I'm guessing most of us have played with magnets before at some point and have felt that mysterious force pushing them apart or pulling them together, depending on how the magnets are oriented toward each other. Some of you may have also seen diagrams like this (By Geek3 - Own work,This file was derived from: Ironfilings cylindermagnet.svg This file was derived from: Magnet compasses.svg, CC BY-SA 4.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=88524982)

Or done an experiment where you visualize the magnetic field lines with iron filings like this (Public domain, Newton Henry Black, Harvey N. Davis (1913) Practical Physics, The MacMillan Co., USA, p. 242, fig. 200)

These lines represent the shape of the magnetic field. The way you can interpret them is that if you place a compass in the field, the compass will align with the field lines at that point. And the closer the lines are to each other, the stronger the magnetic field is in that area. Also, magnetic field lines always form closed loops. They appear to end at the poles of a magnet, but actually they continue on inside the magnet. They do however exit/enter the magnet at the poles.

"But Witchy," you may ask, "why are the lines so concentrated at the poles but then they spread out so much as they travel from one pole of the magnet to the other?" Excellent question my theoretical student XD.

This is I think the key point that was a bit of a eureka moment for me when I realized it a long time ago when I was studying this stuff: the magnetic field lines "want" to be as short as possible while also "wanting" to be as far apart as possible. And when I say want, it does actually behave a little bit like a desire, as the magnetic objects in this field will experience a magnetic force tryin gthe move the object to spread out the field lines and make them shorter.

Let's use this picture I grabbed from Wikipedia as an example: (By Geek3 - Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=10555891)

the bar magnet creates a strong magnetic field at the poles, which means lots of magnetic field lines are squeezed closely together at the poles where they enter/exit the magnet. These lines don't want to be so tightly packed together, so they immediately start spreading out but also immediately start curving towards the opposite pole to try to keep the distance short. If you then try to bring the north pole of another bar magnet close to the north pole of this one, both have magnetic field lines coming out trying to get to their respective south poles, but now even more tightly packed together as you bring the magnets together. Since the magnetic field lines don't want to be so close together, both magnets experience a force pushing each other away so that the magnetic field lines aren't being pushed together so tight.

Similarly, if the south pole of one bar magnet is brought near the north pole of another, the magnetic field lines exiting the north pole of one want to go to the south pole, but the closest south pole is the south pole of the other magnet being brought close, so now the lines go through both magnets before looping back around: (By Geek3 - Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=10515628)

However, between the closest poles of the two magnets, the lines are still concentrated but will try to spread out between the poles. Since the lines want to be as short as possible and don't want to spread out, the magnetic field exerts a force on the bar magnets pulling them together, since that would shorten the lines between the poles down to pretty much nothing.

Finally, a few of you may have been wondering what determines how much the magnetic field lines want to spread out vs shorten. These two tendencies are in opposition pretty much all the time, since spreading the lines out more requires making them longer. This is determined by something called the magnetic permeability which is a property of the materials that the field is passing through (even air or a vacuum). High permeability materials tend to concentrate the magnetic field lines more and allow them to get shorter, while low permeability materials tend to force the lines to spread out and lengthen. Examples of materials with high permeability are iron, cobalt, and other magnetic or ferromagnetic materials. Low permeability are pretty much anything that doesn't experience force in a magnetic field, so most things.

Post thumbnail attribution: (By Omegatron - Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=640068)

Anyway I hope some of you enjoyed this rant or find the information here useful. I can talk about magnets all day so feel free to hit me up if you want, though my inbox will be overflowing for the next week I'm guessing.

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It has been an honor hosting this week's mega. See you all in the next one :)

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago

Fallout New Vegas has left me thinking I'm good at blackjack when really I'm good at blackjack when I have 9 luck which I usually play with.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Has transitioning changed me from an introvert to an extrovert? Is that possible?

This is the first weekend in a while I've spent by myself in a couple months I think. That was how I spent most weekends before, but now it's made me kinda down and making me crave human contact. (Even though I was at a social thing thursday night)

I'm still super shy though, maybe even more than before because I'm always wary of cis people I don't know.

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[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago

12 weeks done with electrolysis! That means I'm almost finished, right? anakin-padme-2

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

Finally writing music again a little bit. It has been so long. Im happy and excited!

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

crushposting, sadposting, venting, dysphoria, slight silver lining at the endCrush is in a relationship

Crush's SO also goes to the gym

Crush and crush's SO met up there and smooched saying goodbye

I knew this could be a possibility and mentally tried preparing for it as a contingency and I'm still crestfallen catgirl-cry catgirl-flop

I know I shouldn't build someone up in my head like I did and imagine a relationship with so little precedence for a foundation but I really felt a quick strong connection and thought there might have been something there

I fell really hard with very little to go off of and this still just fucking hurts

Crush is so cute and charming and sweet and funny

Crush's SO looks like someone who has to be reminded to wear deodorant before going to a MTG tournament, or to wash off Cheeto dust from your hands before you play the demo consoles at GameStop or something

(Yeah I'm bitter and the crush SO might be an amazing person, I know nothing other than a first impression but crush seems like they'd be out of crush SO's league idk)

(Yeah I know "leagues" are a shitty concept and judgmental and shallow and I don't really put a lot of importance to the idea usually but you know what I mean I hope)

Falling on your metaphorical ass trying to kick the metaphorical football hurts even more when you got hurt even before there was a snap and there actually wasn't even a game and you don't have any teammates and you were the only one mentally building up how sweet kicking a metaphorical football would be

πŸ’” football-charlie-brown

I know I'm overreacting and being a big emo dweeb about this but I really just feel sincerely like I might just not be meant to have any real relationships

Every time I fall for someone for like a decade now, no matter how close I get to someone and how well I think things between us are going, it never gets off the ground and I end up getting hurt and self isolating and whatever friendship I'd built with someone withers away and it's always my fault and I'm just so fucking lonely and tired of getting hurt and beating myself up

I spent a long fucking time willing myself to get it together and get dressed and move on after my workout in the shower just glaring at my own reflection in the mirror and just fucking seething at myself

Eventually I noticed little things where I'm making progress and becoming less not-okay with my body

My hips look kinda nice? I dunno, it's like the me I want to be is some undiscovered artifact in an archaeological dig that's just barely peeking out from the dirt that's (gestures broadly) this and I'm not quite sure what it looks like but the more and more work I put into uncovering it, the more I can start to see the contours of what it might look like

I'm still very unhappy with myself and deeply frustrated with where I am physically, mentally and just circumstantially in general and it's hard not beating myself up for shit I can't do anything about now that's just wasted time behind me and trying to not torture myself thinking about what could have been, but from where I am now, I'm making a lot of effort to improve, and I guess that's all I can do

It usually doesn't feel like enough, but it is what it is

Sorry for being a downerheart-sickle

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Unironically I think you can learn emotional intelligence by watching crappy reality tv like Love Is Blind and analysing how not to be like some of the couples. doggirl-smart

It probably helps but it takes more than that I think.

[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago
[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (21 children)

ok i am finally gonna say something

tired thing i am saying...pee pee...

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

I really should do self care tonight but I cry every time so I'm dreading it. I already cried plenty today, just have to force myself through it I guess. Keep putting it off but I can't put it off long enough. screm-aaaaa

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Life may not inherently be suffering, but it is a constant battle between the need to eep and the need to get stuff done.

I am fighting this fight right now, live on bear toriel-snooze

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

speedrunposting (got a completion! 17:33)Finally, on my 281st attempt ~~a little inflated because some runs get reset very quickly if I don't like my spawn~~ I beat minecraft in one sitting! I haven't been able to get obs to work so I only clipped the dragon fight. I got unlucky on a few big things, mostly the nether. Spawned kinda far from the bastion, and despite being the best bastion (bridge, both sides were tall so I got 6 chests. If a side is short you get 1 instead of 3. Chests are really important because they usually have obsidian). I only got 16 obby so no nether travel to the stronghold. It took me kind of a while to get to a blaze spawner too. I was low on food the whole time and ran out when fighting blazes, left on like 3 hearts. Because I didn't get enough obby to nether travel I had to boat 750~ blocks which is really slow. I did get an exposed portal room, which means I don't have to navigate the stronghold which is a huge help. I've lost like half a dozen runs to stronghold nav.

Then the end fight was really rough. I have hardly any food, and I was very shaky. I go to the wrong side of the pillar and use all 12 of my beds. I end on a single heart from all the bed damage.

But yea, feels really good to finally get a completion, hopefully I can get obs working so I can record the full runs in the future. I can definitely do better then this but I'm really happy with this one, my goal was sub 20 and obviously I did a lot better then that. Here is the dragon fight clip if you want to watch, its kinda rough like I said.

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago

crushpostingSaw crush again today

Think I got most of my sad/angsty shit out last night and don't feel as bad about things now

I'm still kinda hurting and disappointed but I'm still happy to see them and they gave me a cookie today? That was nice

Idk I'm gay and sad and lonely and a cookie didn't really make me feel much better but it was nice

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

Boobs πŸ‘€

feelings

cat-confused What do they mean??? Are the feelings awooga ? Are they flag-trans-pride ?? What do they mean?!

mystery-emote

kitty-cri-screm

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I don't really feel that short next to my gf usually despite the 10-ish inch height difference.
But for some reason standing on the couch next to her made me feel a lot taller than her even though that difference was even less.
Is this just how tall people feel all the time? doggirl-sweat

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[–] Anvil_Lavigne@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

ventingjfc i feel like my head's immediately about to explode every time i foolishly venture anywhere outside of this thread. i feel like i keep saying this too. it's not a jab at anyone / anything in particular, i just genuinely have no fucking idea where to go anymore. my partner & i recently had two promising minority spaces we were already getting comfortable w/ just sorta taken away in the sense that it was all actually run by a cabal of libs whose idea of a safe space is when you throw everyone else under the bus to preserve the genocide thirsters' freedom of speech or what the fuck ever.

i'm just so fucking tired.

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (10 children)

So weird question, but how drunk does someone have to be before they don’t remember something?

contextA friend of mine whom I’m like in love with got really drunk and kissed me and I think he might like me and I’ve been trying to figure out how to talk to him about it but now I’m wondering if he remembers it and is taking my ignoring it as a sign that I don’t like him

Edit:

spoilerI kinda want to ask him about it this weekend but his girlfriend is staying over. Would it be weird if I texted him about it while she was there?

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[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

@yewler@hexbear.net from last thread

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I think best case scenario is I find someone I consider to be my best friend ever and then start living with them and we just keep being best friends who maybe also cuddle sometimes. That actually sounds like heaven. I'm just bad at meeting and talking to people

Ah, that does sound nice! I know QPR (queerplatnoic relationship) is like a pretty broad term but I'm sure there are loads of people out there that are into sex-free domestic arrangements. I think it's been helpful for me to remind myself to just try to make connections with people and sometimes things kinda just click and suddenly you're chatting every day.

I struggle to start things with people, I get too in my head about it and like convince myself that they don't like me even before I try to DM them, you know? It's really a weak spot because I love people, hanging out with them, learning about their stuff, doing things together, but I struggle to feel anything but imposing.

There's something preventing that from fully clicking in my noggin though, and I'm trying to place what that is.

I think I can kinda relate to this - I went around and around in my head trying to label relationship things and try to fit them into boxes for a very long time, until my therapist showed me a chart that had everything you may ever want from a relationship on it, and you're meant to fill it out with possibly someone in mind etc. completely atomized desires like "emotional intimacy" and "sharing a house" and even divided out sexual things. It was helpful to me to kind of pick my own desires and then decide what the labels mean to me after. I can send you the PDF if you'd like, let me know...

This may just be my asexuality showing, but it's genuinely news to me to find out that flirting even has a sexual component at all for most people lmao

Ah, totally fair... I think I may have just gotten my ace card revoked today, actually (I am joking, this is an inside joke). I still do think I'm demisexual/demiromantic though, but I have some interesting surprising feelings I'm working through recently in that regard too that I didn't expect.

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