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Children of Time is a 2015 science fiction novel by Adrian Tchaikovsky.

In the distant future, humanity seeks to create new habitats for itself on distant planets, terraforming them and seeding them with life. Dr. Avrana Kern is heading one such project, orbiting the tentatively named "Kern's World", where the plan is to release monkeys le-monke infected with a nanovirus that will accelerate their evolution. Through an act of sabotage from an anti-technology group that has also destroyed much of Earth, the monkeys are never released, and the virus instead infects a species of spider, Portia labiata. The book follows the evolution of the spiders and their eventual civilisation, as well as a remnant of humanity that fled to Kern's World hoping to find paradise.


also children of ruin and children of memory, the sequels, are really good


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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Had a dream I had an avatar to go out in my place to do stuff for me, felt nice since I didn't have to mask so much creature only downside was resisting the urge to bunnyhop everywhere to save time no-copyright

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago

Realizing there was a period of my life where I'd skip everywhere since I thought it was both fun to do and got me around faster ohnoes what if I'm actually in some sort of simulation

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

I love you all so much. Thank you for helping me be my best self and finding true happiness πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (20 children)

All this time putting nail polish on you'd think I be good at it, nah just slather on a base coat the polish the top. The polish on my skins falls off day after and it looks like I know what I'm doing phoenix-smug

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[–] hexbee@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] roux@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago

Oh hey wait, I think I can legally say this now. Down with cis!

[–] anonochronomus@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

Happy jan 6 everybody! I'm gonna be smoking weed and practicing martial arts on the porch to celebrate.

[–] RION@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Finally have my fertility preservation consult later today. I hope the process is quick from this point on because putting HRT on hold for a month for this was not very cash money. Just let me in the hospital goon closet a couple times so I don't have to worry about this anymore

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Muddled philosophy brain go brrr.

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

I must know everything about everything else before I know anything about gender or sexuality. I think it’s weird most people aren’t foundationalists, but I suppose it’s a matter of efficiency.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Posting late on a sunday night in an old mega as a bit

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[–] starlight32@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i have the irresistible urge to be gay AND to do crime... i wonder what that's about

spoilergayroller-2000

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

bad mental health, meltdown, alcoholKinda snapped last night and had a little violent meltdown and feel bad about it and embarrassed by how fucking juvenile and pathetic it was

I don't even really remember what triggered it

I ate some dinner and got drunk but not like, sloppy drunk and it was all pretty normal and like the next thing I knew something in me kinda snapped and I was out in the garage beating the shit out of a spare door that's propped up against the shelves out there absolutely raging and yelling

Bruised my hand pretty bad but I don't think I broke anything thankfully but jfc

Gonna commit to no booze now, that's never really happened to me before, I've always been more of either a "aww I love you" drunk or a maudlin kinda ruminating drunk, never an angry one and that kinda scared the shit out of me

Like, how long was that building up for? How much more shit like that is just lurking in the back of my head festering? (I know I'm a big gymrat but for the record, no, I'm not on gear, so it's not roid rage)

Idk, fuck

This shit sucks ass

I'm way too old for feeling like a ridiculous angsty teenager

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (5 children)
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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago
[–] TerrificBeanOnOwl@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (8 children)

My pronouns... they're gone. Alright who took them from me I want my pronouns (she/her) back! transshork-sad

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

suspiciously pronoun shaped lump in my neck "uhhhh..... i don't know?"

[–] TerrificBeanOnOwl@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You ate my pronouns???????? oooaaaaaaauhhh

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

i was hungy bottom-speak

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[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Bunch of fashion blathering

I thought puffy head bands were the ultimate head feminizer but i have discovered barettes and ohhhh my it's so lovely.

I got a light blue dress for myself and I have just been rolling in euphoria. Today is my 6 month HRT anniversary and it's only getting stronger as i figure out more feminine combos.

It's a little weird being so old and transitioning directly into an old lady I sort of worry about not dressing my age. I don't act weird or anything though when i go out (beyond the regular autism and adhd and bipolar stuff i reckon) so im trying to be a good ambassador. My bffs say im not overdoing it 🀞🏻

One thing that is very difficult is how much trouble it is keeping nice clothes clean!!! I have had to rescue my new dress twice already, once from au jus splashing onto the hem and just this morning from leaning against the car bumper while getting groceries. You have to be sooooo careful at all times which i find tough as i was a slob who didn't give any fucks about myself or my appearance before.

It's so worth it when a girl compliments your dress or your outfit or makeup though i treasure that shit sooo much. I joked with my partner (who is not into it but being nice) about detransitioning and she said that she didn't believe I could if I wanted to. She said I have a woman's heart and there's no putting that genie back in the bottle. She is right of course.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago

why is olympic swimming pool a measurement people use. all i know is they're big. i've never swum in one

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

I am become waomboymoder, eater of garlic doggirl-smug

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Having to take language classes for my degree might actually break the my horrible procrastination on learning Spanish. Then again, I've always been bad at learning languages and especially speaking them, so it could also just be a way to tank my GPA.

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've finally started to recover. Still have a cough, throat still feels weird, but my energy is coming back.

Dyed my hair red. It was pretty red, but then I washed it, and it came out a bit more purple-red. Thought this was because I had dyed purple a but ago (it was really faded), but then I realized that the color-preserving conditioner that came with the purple dye might actually have purple dye in it. Color looks really cool though, almost exactly what I had originally expected.

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

Got a metallic blue nail polish that by itself looks pretty great but I'm no longer content with just one polish so I added another glitter polish on top of it. Thing with glitter polish I feel is that it should really be labeled as more a top coat than anything, imagining just applying the glitter polish on my nails would be pretty underwhelming.

[–] starkillerfish@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Read the children of time this year and really loved it. Anyone has similar recommendations for generation ship sci fi?

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