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Children of Time is a 2015 science fiction novel by Adrian Tchaikovsky.

In the distant future, humanity seeks to create new habitats for itself on distant planets, terraforming them and seeding them with life. Dr. Avrana Kern is heading one such project, orbiting the tentatively named "Kern's World", where the plan is to release monkeys le-monke infected with a nanovirus that will accelerate their evolution. Through an act of sabotage from an anti-technology group that has also destroyed much of Earth, the monkeys are never released, and the virus instead infects a species of spider, Portia labiata. The book follows the evolution of the spiders and their eventual civilisation, as well as a remnant of humanity that fled to Kern's World hoping to find paradise.


also children of ruin and children of memory, the sequels, are really good


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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (3 children)

My checklist for mental health are make sure I'm clean shaven, paint my nails, and finally epilate. If I can do 2/3 I feel fine usually but feeling bleh so might push myself to do the last one. Just gonna procrastinate first and get some reading done or whatev

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

why is olympic swimming pool a measurement people use. all i know is they're big. i've never swum in one

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Bunch of fashion blathering

I thought puffy head bands were the ultimate head feminizer but i have discovered barettes and ohhhh my it's so lovely.

I got a light blue dress for myself and I have just been rolling in euphoria. Today is my 6 month HRT anniversary and it's only getting stronger as i figure out more feminine combos.

It's a little weird being so old and transitioning directly into an old lady I sort of worry about not dressing my age. I don't act weird or anything though when i go out (beyond the regular autism and adhd and bipolar stuff i reckon) so im trying to be a good ambassador. My bffs say im not overdoing it 🀞🏻

One thing that is very difficult is how much trouble it is keeping nice clothes clean!!! I have had to rescue my new dress twice already, once from au jus splashing onto the hem and just this morning from leaning against the car bumper while getting groceries. You have to be sooooo careful at all times which i find tough as i was a slob who didn't give any fucks about myself or my appearance before.

It's so worth it when a girl compliments your dress or your outfit or makeup though i treasure that shit sooo much. I joked with my partner (who is not into it but being nice) about detransitioning and she said that she didn't believe I could if I wanted to. She said I have a woman's heart and there's no putting that genie back in the bottle. She is right of course.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

massive volcel violation postingthought #1: "holy shit just 8 months HRT has made my ass look incredible" hyperflush

thought #2: "holy shit just imagine how fucking stunning it will look after about 2 years HRT" panting

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

lmfao rest in piss anita bryant

[–] buh@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

anita bryan't

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

we lost our best friend today and… we arent sure if we made the right choice or not by leaving them

not sure how we are going to recover from this

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

What I am doing now is not working. I'm going to try and get on diy. I still don't think I can be independent before changes are noticeable but another year without E (or however much time) isn't going to change that. May as well try it and see if it helps.

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spoiler thoughts of suicide I've been feeling hopeless and like I'm going to have to kill myself anyway. It doesn't really matter if I start a timer on moving/coming out. Worst comes to worst I'll have to come out and they'll be disappointed in me or whatever. I can't get out of this by myself so maybe E will help. If not shrug-outta-hecks there really are not that many more options. At least I can die knowing what E feels like. If these mythical mental changes are real or hype. :::

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (4 children)

in an act of unimaginable malice from the gods to make a human existence a cruel joke, they made the world's horniest trans woman with a curse to be perpetually single

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[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I LOVE THIS BOOK

I LOVE THIS BOOK

I LOVE THIS BOOK

I WANT LARGE SENTIENT SPIDER BUDDIES

IT'S SUCH A CUTE BOOK AND IT'S SO WHOLESOME

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I try to dress well no matter what I do, (I have low self-confidence, but knowing I look the best I can do helps a ton) but the last couple of days have been so cold that shapeless bundle of cloth have been the only viable option. I hate winter madeline-stare

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Me working at sega"Alright, so new plan we start a new sonic game but we don't remake green hill zone no-copyright my last words before being thrown out a window

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Having to take language classes for my degree might actually break the my horrible procrastination on learning Spanish. Then again, I've always been bad at learning languages and especially speaking them, so it could also just be a way to tank my GPA.

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I've finally started to recover. Still have a cough, throat still feels weird, but my energy is coming back.

Dyed my hair red. It was pretty red, but then I washed it, and it came out a bit more purple-red. Thought this was because I had dyed purple a but ago (it was really faded), but then I realized that the color-preserving conditioner that came with the purple dye might actually have purple dye in it. Color looks really cool though, almost exactly what I had originally expected.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

I am become waomboymoder, eater of garlic doggirl-smug

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Massive headache today and I've still got a handful of chores to run

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

Dreamt I was on the moon and I really needed to piss but didn't 😩

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

it's so strange that americans just did that to their cities. complete unforced error

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Gonna try taking another break from the bearsite as I have some queer shit IRL planned so I wanna see if I can start doing that to help my burnout. Also think its time for me to say goodbye to this account as its getting too old opsec wise. Sucks because I like this user name :(.

Maybe I'll look into if I can just delete all my posts or something and not make a new account but that still has opsec issues do idk

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

Witch hazel remains great for my skin and makes me feel like a witch vegan-seitan

[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

anxiety, dysphoriahate when i'm waiting for my meds to get delivered, gives me like a creeping undergrowth of anxiety constantly prodding at the back of my brain. i've been diy for long enough now i know they'll get here, i know i'm not gonna run out, but every time i take my meds i'm like compulsively counting pills and it's like there's a blaring countdown playing in my head - " ~~13~~ ~~12~~ ~~11~~ 10 days until your soul gets ripped out again." really gotta get a pcp again, even just dealing with this once every few months is too much.

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