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iZombie was a really great show that basically disappeared from public consciousness the minute it finished.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And what was my crime, drooling over a twink? A succulent twink?

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Thinking of trying lingerie for the first time, what do yall think of this?

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago

that's a bit intimate

[–] retrozombi@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago

Okay, but I need the Eeyore one

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Sick and fucking feeling like absolute dog shit and in too much pain to really sleep and am so exhausted

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ugh that sucks, I hope you feel better soon cat-trans

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[–] cyber_godqueen@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago (3 children)

boymoding? No, tomboy moding!

dysphoriai'm just clocky af >:3

[–] grym@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

This is me as well. Like I actually want to dress and look tomboy or soft butch, but I still want to be seen as a woman, it's hard :((

I was trying to explain this the other day and it’s like I’m not boy moding I’m soft-butching.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)
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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

I hurt my lower back violently thrusting my pelvis to the dubstep remix of Sweet Caroline

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I think I want to get a collar for myself now... I don't know how to feel about this revalation...

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

I have also been thinking about it. So I'd say you should feel... Good? About it.

Actually, I was talking with my coworker just the other day, a customer had come in wearing a collar. I said it was just a normal day, so it would be funny to come in wearing one...

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

dooo ittttt!!!! its sosososo worf it we wear ours basically 24/7 :3

[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

trauma

Since going on hormones , I experience emotions more intensely. Did it make anyone else's repressed trauma come out? I feel like I can experience my past and current experiences with loneliness, dysphoria and bullying with more feelings now.___

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 1 day ago

traumaPretty much, yeah. Being able to feel more emotional helped me gradually start to recognise and unpack how parts of my life have negatively impacted me, and it makes the big emotional events feel stronger now. But I think it's more helpful than harmful to feel that way, and it also makes the nicer events feel much better too.

spoilerAs an egg how I dealt with what I now understand to be dysphoria, with trauma from my family, with pretty much any emotion besides anger was to repress it.

HRT made me feel my emotions way way more and with way more granularity. I've described it like my vision was before I had glasses and then after I put them on for the first time. It was hard to deal with because I couldn't really repress all those feelings anymore and I just had no tools to deal with feeling shitty emotions that you can't just lock away.

It sucked because I had to deal with a lot of repressed shit but it was nice to finally grab a hold of it, and it was very nice to have the words and ability to talk about what exactly I was feeling

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I got new glasses and they're cute as hell

party-blob fuck yeah to cute glasses

bottom dysphoriaFucking... penis nightmares. Haven't had much of those since first puberty

[–] Khlo@hexbear.net 22 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'm new here, hi everyone :3

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

yay you made it! welcome Khlo!

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[–] x87_floatingpoint@hexbear.net 19 points 1 day ago (5 children)

pointless complainingFeeling the dysphoria so much lately. Why does all the trans stuff have to be so much gatekeeping by insurance / medical professionals / etc. . Top surgery would improve my life so much. But no. I do own a binder, but it's too small, I need to get a bigger size before I can wear it, it's expensive, and it's not the same as actually fixing the problem of having the wrong body. No hope of transitioning unless either my family changes their opinion on trans issues or I find someone else to support me. Sad. sadness

[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

spoilerI have the exact same issue where my binder is too small and a new one is too expensive yea

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 31 points 1 day ago (11 children)

Bought girl clothes that I don’t totally hate or feel completely dsyphoric in doggirl-happy

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[–] x87_floatingpoint@hexbear.net 17 points 1 day ago (5 children)

How do you even meet other trans people IRL? I guess there are places where they meet or whatever, but I am too afraid of everything to go to an unfamiliar place somewhere alone to meet with people I never seen before.

[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I met some trans people through leftist/activist groups and sometimes I go to radical queer meetups.

If you can find any kind of meetup that matches your vibe a bit I think it is very much worth the anxiety and stress to go. Being trans can be such a lonely experience and it feels really nice to meet other people who are going through it too.

The best way would be to ask some queer/trans person in your vicinity if they know some kind of meetup group because then you already know 1 person.

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[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'm pretty sure the only semi-coherent thought I've had today is "Titania from Fire Emblem: Radiant Dawn transed me," and it's just kinda been floating around in my head all day refusing to leave.

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