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[–] Justice@lemmygrad.ml 62 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (6 children)

My most reactionary opinions all stem from selfish people being annoying as hell in loud ways.

Vehicles (often illegally) modified to be louder than normal solely to be annoying is probably my top one.

The other worse noise in the world is the near constant droning from 8am-8pm in suburban areas of lawnmowers/leaf blowers/edgers/etc. Everyone individually mowing their individual lawns with their individual lawnmowers on their individual schedules. Lawns are the stupidest fucking things on earth. Insane waste of resources and a huge source of annoyance for literally everyone who has to exist around them

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Hate. Let me tell you how much I have come to hate the leafblower.

Seriously just use a fucking rake, I like using a fucking rake, I like sweeping, I like the silent meditativeness involved in using these things and getting the job done slower, who gives a shit? It's not a job worth doing and it's certainly it's not worth the sonic enshittification.

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Or at the very least, don't use it in the early morning on a weekend. "Early bird gets the worm" fuck you you've gotten the weekday we all have to slave away at 8 in the morning despite our circadian rhythm, let me have two days were I don't have to wake up at 7 in the morning.

[–] Justice@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Some guy was cutting grass in my neighborhood at 7:30am the other day.

I really fucking hate everything sometimes because on one hand I kinda know if I went out there and acted like normal person and was polite enough and said "hey, man... it's 7:30. Why? Can't this wait until maybe 9 or 10am?" he'd probably just say sorry and sure for next time. Because a lot of people being assholes are just oblivious or not thinking at all in my experience.

But it's one of those annoyances that's so temporary, and so small yet seems so big at the moment. It feels obvious to me that a person should avoid making loud noises at 730 or 8 and I think I end up getting into a spiral of "it's not so much the individual act, it's the fact that I have to go outside and explain to another human that he's basically running a vibration, ear-fucking machine outside my window while I'm sleeping or otherwise in a "peaceful" state of the day." Like if I ever made loud noises at 730 I'd feel ashamed for the entire day. It's incredible to me that other people apparently totally lack this ability. I wonder how they'd feel on the receiving end of the annoyance, but I also have found that some people also don't care on that end of things which is wild to me. Like people who can live in apartments and have a car alarm go off daily and just ignore it. I have met these people. And I'm just like holy fuck I guess you either develop a part of your brain to fully not hear that or you end up on the news. Shit's crazy to me.

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago (3 children)

I once sat next to a guy on a bus who was blasting music from his phone. It finally became too much and I asked him to put in some earphones maybe? I was fully expecting some psychotic reaction, but he just went "oh yeah, sure thing" and then put in earphones and I was just sitting there like "???? You had these the whole time, and you were chill about the request indicating you understand its annoying to hwar your music blasted from shitty phone speakers on a crowded bus, but you still did it???? What???" Like he was so nice about it, but just the fact I had to ask him made the act so weird. Those interactions can really get on my nerves

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[–] Gucci_Minh@hexbear.net 16 points 5 months ago (9 children)

I suggested to people around me to switch to battery mowers , which had a reputation of sucking ass many years ago that its never managed to shed, but one guy caved and bought a Chinese egopower and the rest saw it be better in noise and power and also ended up getting similar ones. Now I can enjoy weekends without the constant 2 stroke drone of gas mowers. Also less exhaust fumes in the air which is nice.

Doesn't solve the issue of wasting this giant plot of land that could be used for native flowers or gardening or growing herbs and veggies, but its better than nothing.

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[–] take_five_seconds@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

The other worse noise in the world is the near constant droning from 8am-8pm in suburban areas of lawnmowers/leaf blowers/edgers/etc. Everyone individually mowing their individual lawns with their individual lawnmowers on their individual schedules. Lawns are the stupidest fucking things on earth. Insane waste of resources and a huge source of annoyance for literally everyone who has to exist around them

waow-based

every week my complex does their landscaping starting at like 7-8am (no noise ordinance against that apparently!) and then the neighboring complex does it the next day. definitely love to not be able to sleep with the windows open when the weather is nice.

[–] pastalicious@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (2 children)

What if you only mow once the grass is so tall the city could fine you?

[–] Justice@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 5 months ago

This is more of a systemic critique than individual. I also have to mow my lawn, etc. Having wild growing grass and weeds everywhere would also suck. Ideally, I suppose, you bulldoze all this shit away, build high density, high quality apartments where people all have private areas without disturbing or disturbed. And there would be large public green areas, maintained by unionized city workers on a regular schedule. Lawns are kinda like everyone having a tiny but much shittier park. All this stuff just feels normal because we grew up around it

[–] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 12 points 5 months ago

bro it's literally half of our symbol

hammer-sickle

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[–] Barx@hexbear.net 56 points 5 months ago (1 children)

People that work nonstandard hours have to deal with this stuff every time they try to sleep.

The real solution would be to have high quality insulation that prevented neighbors from bothering one another when they do normal things like watch a movie or have a party. And to minimize nonstandard hours jobs. But that would inconvenience the land leeches so instead we get to fight with each other.

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago

I agree it's not black and white. Consideration is a two-way street. All of this was discussed in the previous thread and I think there's some good discussion there.

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 45 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Had a neighbor that almost got me evicted just because I work swing shifts and don't get home till 11pm and sometimes I just wanna talk to some friends without having the literal fucking cops called on me and threatening my life because you heard something slightly above a murmur while I was on the phone speaking just loud enough to be heard on the other end of the line.

Funny thing is the property manager is actually a comrade and informed me that the dumb fuck came up to my door to record me inside my own home so I put the fear of god into him and implied I could get him criminally prosecuted for illegally recording me if he didn't move out by the end of the week (something I am not even sure I could have done but he thought better of assuming I was bluffing).

[–] CarbonScored@hexbear.net 36 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

The good post there applies here, we live in a society that causes us to inevitably step on each other and somebody will always end up annoyed. One most common factor being that people are cramped into tiny, poorly separated spaces with no communal areas, where they can hear each other's every sound, because money.

The best we can do to get on in these shitty situations is compromise and recognise it's a dumb arrangement that shouldn't exist to start with.

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 31 points 5 months ago (6 children)

This comes back around to my unironic assertation that our concept of time is a bourgeois construct that exists to sell alarm clocks.

[–] Llituro@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago

Debord would agree with you

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[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago

we live in a society

obama-socialism

[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 36 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Hello NKVD? I'd like to report a counter-revolutionary. That's right, my wife complains when I stay up till 4am playing video games because it keeps her up. Yes, the gulag is fine too. Thank you.

[–] lil_tank@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

NKVD shows up

- Yeah my wife is right ther.. wait why are you cuffing me

[–] Breath_Of_The_Snake@hexbear.net 32 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

If you wake your neighbors up you’re too loud. Be better

[–] WideningGyro@hexbear.net 34 points 5 months ago (1 children)

This is common sense and while I agree, in principle, I feel like 90% of noise complaints that get escalated have to do with two groups that don't follow common sense on the issue: power-hungry assholes who just want to control people and start shit, and genuinely disabled people whose noise tolerance is completely different than most people (hypersensitivity to sound, auditory hallucinations etc.).

My sister got harassed out of an apartment by an elderly lady downstairs (not sure which category she fit into) who would complain about literally any sound they made upstairs. Normal conversation, in the early evening, would prompt angry letters in their mailbox. She would write meticulous logs of all their "transgressions" (like, "1 AM, chair moved across floor") and threaten to send them to the police, talk shit to other neighbors trying to spark drama etc. I don't feel like there was really any way my sister could have fixed that situation by being "better", because she didn't do anything wrong. Life makes sounds sometimes, maybe even at inconvenient hours. Sometimes you gotta move a chair real quick at 1 AM. It is what it is. All she could have done was accept that her downstairs neighbor has extreme needs, and then work to live a completely silent life. She didn't, she moved out instead. Like most people would probably do.

I guess my point is that having simple "common sense" rules about this doesn't really work in a system where vulnerable/sensitive people live next door to neurotypical/non-sensitive people whose ordinary lives makes a baseline of noise. People like my sister's upstairs neighbor would probably need detached housing or a heavily insulated apartment, which I imagine a better society could probably provide to those who need it.

[–] Breath_Of_The_Snake@hexbear.net 14 points 5 months ago (2 children)

old people typically have poor hearing. Are you sure you aren’t simply being a good sibling and taking your sisters side?

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[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 15 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yeah but they aren't talking about third shift people. first second and third shifts typically refer to 7am-3pm, 3pm-11pm, and 11pm-7am shifts respectively, so third shift would be going to sleep in the morning. Source: used to work at 7-11 and a warehouse that had 24hr operations.

[–] Breath_Of_The_Snake@hexbear.net 21 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Edited to be more accurate, point is that if you’re fucking another persons sleep you’re too loud unless they are being completely unreasonable “princess and the pea” style.

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 19 points 5 months ago

For sure I have been on both sides of this working second shift for the last 12 years. Construction starting on an adjacent apartment at 8AM is totally unacceptable to me when I have barely been asleep 4 hours, while the above mentioned neighbor losing his shit because I am just having a normal conversation at 11pm is also bullshit. Generally I agree we should be respectful of one another's varying sleep schedules in a world that no longer sleeps.

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 31 points 5 months ago (1 children)

There's a thing in Islam called "حسن الجوار" it is about how to treat your neighbor, also you westerners need to get better sound isolation cardboard ahh houses

[–] GrainEater@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

under gommunism we'll all have soundproof apartments up to 130 dB

[–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 27 points 5 months ago

In a communist society building quality would improve, as would insulation quality.

[–] milk_thief@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago

they clearly dont consider the needs of dog girls to bark really loud

[–] DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml 22 points 5 months ago (4 children)

Aaaw yeah, time for the bi-annual hooning bogans on dirtbikes hexbear struggle session!

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 16 points 5 months ago

We have the best struggle sessions folks, many people are saying this.

a-little-trolling

[–] Thordros@hexbear.net 16 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Heck yeah! I can't wait to get extremely mad at fellow poor folks!

[–] DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 5 months ago

If you're rich enough to afford a dirtbike, you're practically bourgeoise. Sorry sweaty, I don't make the rules.

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 12 points 5 months ago

I'm anti-Australian but pro-hooning

[–] autism_2@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

I just wish they would drive through the suburbs instead of assaulting me with loud wet fart noises for hours doing circles in the parking lot

edit I don't know what a hoonie dirtbag or whatever is I just wanted to complain

[–] DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 5 months ago

"Hooning" is driving your car/bike really fast and revving the engine to make a lot of noise, usually very late at night, they often occur around burnouts, but not always. And a "bogan" is kind of the Australian version of...I guess "white trash" sort of people? People known for generally being drunk, violent, inconsiderate, and generally awful to others. There is also a classist aspect to it as well, as they tend to be poor, but I wasn't intended that aspect of it here, more the "loud and inconsiderate" part.

[–] peppersky@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago (1 children)

You should be allowed to have a party and play music and have people dance at your home.

But if you have a party and play music as loud as possible even though no one is dancing you should be send to the gulag no questions asked. Like some people do actually get off on being annoying pests

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Also you should be allowed to blast music sometimes, because its nice and being considerate means also being considerate that sometimes people need to be noisy. The issue occurs when "sometimes" becomes "all of the time" and "my neighbour asked me to quiet down" becomes "my kkkracker kkkoloniSSer neighboourgeoise ordered the Gestapo on me for the crime of destressing (firing guns into the air like a looney toons cowboy) after a long work day. I am the revolution and the proletariat and everyone should accommodate all my needs and I should not because we live in a big city so get used to it liberal"

[–] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 18 points 5 months ago

Courtesy to your neighbors is a barometer for all pro-social behaviors, including how useful you'd be in an insurgency.

[–] Huldra@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

In the revolutionary society we will simply designate city areas for day and night shift workers so no one ever clashes with their schedules.

[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 28 points 5 months ago (2 children)

you'd have places to go when you wanted to do something loud, this whole argument is so silly

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It's wild to me that a common room isn't a normal thing in american urban planning. It's pretty normal for a housing unit to have a dedicated room for big parties and that sort of stuff.

[–] Justice@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

"Eww, sharing?! NO THANKS!" cranks up bass on the worst techno ever

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[–] Huldra@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago

Yeah I mean ultimately the argument comes down to alienation in the here and now, which there is no one size fits all answer for how to deal with.

[–] Diuretic_Materialism@hexbear.net 15 points 5 months ago

Oh boy this struggle session again!

[–] Rx_Hawk@hexbear.net 12 points 5 months ago

People usually complain about upstairs neighbors, but my downstairs neighbors can be ridiculous. I swear they do everything short of banging a broom on their ceiling. And they just got a beagle.

Yeah I'm salty about it sometimes, but people who call the cops about something like that are trash.

[–] SpiderFarmer@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago

Something tells me this Maliki fellow doesn't actually live in close quarters. There's definitely a balance to be struck. For example, I'm not going to play my fucking banjo without a mute at 2 in the morning.

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