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Limestone is a common type of sedimentary rock which I find uncommonly interesting! It's mostly calcium carbonate, which is also what eggshells πŸ₯š, seashells 🐚, and pearls πŸ¦ͺ are made out of.

In places where it rains a lot, limestone erodes easily, which results in simply gorgeous landscapes such as:

HαΊ‘ Long Bay in Vietnam

Tsingy de Bemaraha National Park in Madagascar

The Li River in China

Additionally, the world's longest (Mammoth) and deepest (~~Veryovkina~~ Krubera is once again the world's deepest cave, thank you to SockOlm for pointing that out) cave systems are both found in limestone formations

Mammoth Cave in the United States

Veryovkina Cave in Georgia/Abkhazia/Russia (disputed territory)

image sourcesThumbnail https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:ElTorcal0408.jpg#mw-jump-to-license

HαΊ‘ Long Bay https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Halong_Bay_in_Vietnam.jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Tsingy de Bemaraha National Park https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Tsingy_de_Bemaraha.jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Li River https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Li-Flussfahrt-160-Huegel-2012-gje.jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Mammoth Cave https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Mammoth_Cave_Rotunda_(USGS_Lwt02830).jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Veryovkina Cave https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Veryovkina_cave._Babatunda_pit.jpg#mw-jump-to-license


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

Eco* (4/21 - 4/27)
EstraDoll* (4/28 - 5/4)
SadArtemis* (5/5 - 5/11)
yewler* (5/12 - 5/18)
AshenWolf* (5/19 - 5/25)
oscardejarjayes* (5/26 - 6/1)
AshenWolf* (6/2 - 6/8)
PeeNutButtHer (6/9 - 6/15)
GayTuckerCarlson (6/16 - 6/22)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Had a nightmare that my boobs just fell off wtf doggirl-sweat

"Put it back back, put it back!!"

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 days ago

It's like when you dream your teeth fall out except it makes even less sense.

Just slap some epoxy on them and don’t mess up the placement too much. Good as new. doggirl-thumbsup

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 20 points 3 days ago

I miss when the trans mega was booming madeline-sadeline

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

There I was doing my gender presentation in front of the whole class only to realize I was naked and so was the class

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I visited my friend in [large city] and went walking/clothes shopping and got so many compliments on my fit from people just walking down the streethyperflush

I ended up spending two hours in one shop chatting with the very ND owner and trying on almost everything. I think they were hitting on me but I'm also ND and kept telling myself they were just being nice because they want to sell me clothes. But then they gave me a hug when I left kitty-cri-texas Next time I visit my friend I'm going back to that shop and asking for their number (maybe, idk, sounds scary).

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago

Saw a really cool looking gendery person at the grocery store with a rad gothy punk outfit getting flowers for someone and thought it was really sweet

catgirl-heart

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

huh i have 5 subscribers on youtube catgirl-huh i guess youtube left some of my posts up

complaining, dysphoriaI can't do what I need to do to be perceived correctly. I barely could keep up with what I needed to do as a guy.

I am very bitter towards everyone who was born right. Who wasn't destroyed by the wrong puberty. I kind of hate them. Also like 95% of them want to have some say in our shit, mostly to defend their own from this hell.

I'm bitter, and I can't do it (even basic stuff), and I have to get up early tomorrow. Fuck waking up (early, of course).

[–] buh@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

getting on HRT is like installing a virtual machine

getting on HRT is like installing a virtual machine

idk where I'm going with this but it's true~

Installing VMs is a lot easier kitty-cri

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

Death metal singer with sore throat stopping to take a lozge only to lose it in her next scream asagiri

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago

All my friends have made up fake girlfriends so I think I should get in on the bit too, seriously number of them have committed to the bit to the point I worry.

[–] Des@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (3 children)

often wonder how many days back is appropriate to reply to a comment or a post on hexbear? what do you feel is the unofficial answer?

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Someone once replied to a post I made over like 5 months ago.

It was nice. Didn't think it was weird or anything.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I think its appropriate at any age if you have something to say. Personally I don't really reply to stuff older then a day (outside of megs maybe) but I also don't usually see older or have anything super important to say. And I wouldn't find it weird if someone else responded to something of mine that was old.

I always go with less than 2 days. But I wouldn’t see it as inappropriate if someone was to reply to one of my older comments.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I cannot regulate my emotions in a healthy way

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

relationship sadpostingholy fuck i wish more than anything that i could have someone treat me like i fucking matter to them. like they want to be with me. like they think that i'm special. i want to be loved and venerated and cherished and treated like someone who means something to someone. i hate being alone. i hate being single. i hate only knowing the feeling of physical affection and intimacy as something in my head but for the fucking life of me i can never actually find anyone who can just fucking click with me. i feel too starved to keep going but i have to keep going anyway

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago

wow this post is a big mood

*hugggggggies*

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

meow-hug

in a similar boat

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

::: spoiler kink

My domme had to stop our scene today right as I was getting down into subspace, and it was so abrupt and it gave me such whiplash. She sat with me a moment but left soon after. I understand why she needed to stop but fuck im just in such a weird headspace rn. Feel discarded and it hurts.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

spoilerThat sucks, shitty or short aftercare is hard... it makes sense you're feeling discarded. Hopefully you two can connect later and talk about what you need in aftercare, or just don't play together if she can't do proper aftercare for whatever legit or illegitimate reason.

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago

::: spoiler spoiler

Yeah, normally theres more aftercare, but this time she just sort of was like "im done, i think ill leave soon". And she had to stop for legitimate reasons, but i think we need to restructure our playtime to make sure this doesnt happen again.

[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

cissy here, went to a protest against the recent UK ruling, very good turnout for the size of my city :)

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago (2 children)

cw: transphobia, dysphoria, anxiety, depressionParents (transphobic, not out to) visiting for Easter has fucked my mental health. Just feel dysphoric and ill for needing to boymode. The cruddy weather isn't helping. Feel too depressed and anxious to text/reach out to any of my friends or dates. Was able to slip out of their hotel and ditch them for now, but don't feel like doing anything. Just want to curl up and lay on my bed. It doesn't help that everything but the Walmart is closed down for Easter, and that was out of the pink nail polish that I specifically wanted to pick up to do trans pride colors. Cannot wait until they leave so I can paint my nails and do some makeup practice to feel better. catgirl-cry

Well full baby trans (thigh highs, dysphoria hoodie, cat girl mask) and texted my date some pics. Got some validation from them and I feel much better.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

Dreamt I was living in a house with other hexbears, it was so cringe I had to resort to playing no-copyright adventure 1 to self soothe. Also I was part machine that's whatever since I found some cool bonus content in that game

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Oh my god I need to feel more fem/like a woman doggirl-cry Hopefully I can do my nails soon I guess. And I'll get access to hrt soon- still worried about actually starting though. So, so worried. Going to go cry myself to sleep. Goodnight mega.

[–] thoughtful_poster@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 3 days ago (5 children)

ive been trying to leave my home all day most days.. its been going pretty well... less brainrot...

one problem i have is i worry like what if everything gets better and my permanent frame of reference for everything is stuck in 2025 brainrot

also please recommend me some quiet or funny or cute shows or anime as my edible will hit soon

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago

The results are in with 2-0 Billy Joel is better than The Beach Boys! doggirl-grin

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

So are trans women not allowed to use the ladies room in the UK anymore?

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago

I’ve been using both randomly trying to get a feel for people’s reactions, but no one really has so far.
I think I might rather deal with potentially getting harassed in the men’s room then having the cops called on me tho.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 3 days ago (2 children)

waffling about sexuality, possible HRT changes or maybe just possible life changesover the past two weeks on multiple occasions I've found myself referring to myself as "straight" in my head and I can understand why. Let me be clear, I'm not straight, I'm bi. I've known I was bi since I was 16, but recently all my sexual/romantic thoughts have fallen almost exclusively towards men and I... don't really know what to feel about that at this point. I don't really think HRT "changed" my sexuality. I know perfectly well that for years of my life I spent pining after women to attain a femininity that I craved but couldn't have in myself. But as I've grown far more comfortable in my place in life as a woman, I feel like my attraction is actually what I'm looking for in a partner, and that's something that feels... like I want a man.

and I'm just not really used to any of this and don't really know what to make of it tbh.

spoiler extra sad i've fallen asleep every night for the past two weeks to the thoughts of men doting on me and making me feel special. making me feel like they want me and care for me. my bed remains totally empty but with a new flavor of sadness that i never really felt before :::

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago

I feel like it’s normal for your preference to fluctuate as a bisexual, especially when transitioning.

When I was younger I leaned more towards men because I was just discovering my sexuality and it was validating to my femininity/identity, but now it’s much more leaning towards women.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I... don't really know what to feel about that at this point.

Feel good about it! If that's what you're wanting, there's no need to interpret it for anything other than what it is.

I think it's normal to lean that way when you first transition because it really validates your femininity (as boynomoder said). Maybe you'll stay there, and maybe you won't.

And you don't need to say you're straight. Just say you're on a guy kick rn doggirl-lol

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago

And you don't need to say you're straight. Just say you're on a guy kick rn

Oh no, I'm not straight. I'm still very much bi, thank you very much. hexbear-bi-2 I've only called myself straight without thinking first before realizing "hey that's not correct". I'm just not used to being into men this much

and idk if I'm doing it to feel more valid in my femininity. I've been getting a lot more comfortable with it in recent months and for decades before transitioning I sought after women to compensate for the femininity I felt like I didn't have. I've felt more into men the more comfortable I've been with myself (though it's still 100% possible I'm not that comfortable with myself. I saw some of those picture of my self last night and... oof)

@Boynomoder@hexbear.net because i guess this is a response to you tto

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

cw: kink ig?lack of teleportation technology is fucking me right now. There's this bitch~1~ brattying up my phone and I can do nothing about it. catgirl-disgust Now if I could just hop over and give her a bite and a scratch but nooooo, laws of physic and shit.

~1~said with love

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[–] gwysibo@hexbear.net 14 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

don't see anything about it here or in the news mega but just wanted to share that there was an enormous protest in parliament square (and up and down the UK) yesterday against the supreme court ruling on wednesday. all of parliament square was filled and people were spilling out onto the roads.

The Protracted Trans People's War against the cis.

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Yesterday's transfem spicy noodle challenge made me realize once more that there's two types of trans girls:

  • can't handle any amount of spicy, makes me want to protect her from roaming pepper corns wandering into the area

  • loves spicy and makes me want to egg her on to try more of the good stuff

Oh and then there's chili fox girl who just seems to be immune to capsaicin. I was crying and blowing my nose nonstop from my noodles and had a spot below my lips that actually got a little chemical burn and she did not only have the same amount of the hot sauce, she also put the carolina reaper powder on it that she likes to bring along and she didn't even break a sweat.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

transfem spicy noodle challenge


This is Lilith, one of the spicy noodles of all time

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[–] min@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago

Attended a protest here in the UK about the recent ruling. Good times, was a nice show of solidarity between trans people and local allies and other queer communities.

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