this post was submitted on 07 Apr 2025
90 points (100.0% liked)

traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

1203 readers
133 users here now

Welcome to /c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, an anti-capitalist meme community for transgender and gender diverse people.

  1. Please follow the Hexbear Code of Conduct

  2. Selfies are not permitted for the personal safety of users.

  3. No personal identifying information may be posted or commented.

  4. Stay on topic (trans/gender stuff).

  5. Bring a trans friend!

  6. Any image post that gets 200 upvotes with "banner" or "rule 6" in the title becomes the new banner.

  7. Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.

  8. When made outside of NSFW tagged posts, comments about dysphoria/traumatic/transphobic material should be spoiler tagged.

  9. Arguing in favor of transmedicalism is unacceptable. This is an inclusive and intersectional community.

  10. While this is mostly a meme community, we allow most trans related posts as we grow the trans community on the fediverse.

If you need your neopronouns added to the list, please contact the site admins.

Remember to report rulebreaking posts, don't assume someone else has already done it!

Matrix Group Chat:

Suggested Matrix Client: Cinny

https://rentry.co/tracha (Includes rules and invite link)

WEBRINGS:

πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ Transmasculine Pride Ring πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

⬅️ Left πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Be Crime Do Gay Webring πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Right ➑️

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
kristina@hexbear.net
LesbianLiberty@hexbear.net
silent_water@hexbear.net
Cromalin@hexbear.net
ZoomeristLeninist@hexbear.net
corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net
Washburn@hexbear.net
ultraviolet@hexbear.net
tactical_trans_karen@hexbear.net
Saoirse@hexbear.net
SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net
alexandra_kollontai@hexbear.net
oscardejarjayes@hexbear.net
LeylaLove@hexbear.net
TheGenderWitch@hexbear.net
Des@hexbear.net
gaycomputeruser@hexbear.net
EllenKelly@hexbear.net
pooh@hexbear.net
Edie@hexbear.net
sharedburdens@hexbear.net
Wake@hexbear.net
gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net
magi@hexbear.net
belligerentkitten@hexbear.net
buh@hexbear.net
MusicOwl@hexbear.net
BrookeBaybee@hexbear.net
SwitchyWitchyandBitchy@hexbear.net
Hestia@hexbear.net
Carcharodonna@hexbear.net
AshenWolf@hexbear.net
PaX@hexbear.net
SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net
Diva@lemmy.ml
Luna@hexbear.net
90
Peaches - Trans Megathread from April 7th, 2025 to April 13th, 2025 (hexbear.net)
submitted 1 week ago by JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net
525 comments fedilink hide all child comments
 

Didn't have a chance to write up a detailed post, either on a fruit or the topic I was originally thinking about. I think they're neat and they taste good.

Join our public Matrix server!

https://matrix.to//#/#tracha-space:transfem.dev

https://rentry.co/tracha#tracha-rooms

As a reminder, please do not discuss current struggle sessions in the mega. We want this to be a little oasis for all of us and the best way to do that is not to feed into existing conflict on the site.

Also, be sure to properly give content warnings and put sensitive subjects behind proper spoiler tags. It's for the mental health of not just your comrades, but yourself as well.

Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.

(page 2) 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] lib1@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (7 children)

sex/masturbationEstrogen has destroyed my ability to just mindlessly crank one out based on pure friction. Generally, this feels great. But I feel so disconnected from myself sexually. How can I speed up the process of learning myself again?

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago

spoilerIt's probably gonna involve a lot more build up. Also you'll have an easier time if you think of yourself as sexy. Plus you have some other zones that'll probably be more pleasurable than just the one. You got your perianal zone (gooch/the spot between your butt and the other bit), try rub that. Also, prostate play. You'll have to try touching yourself in some new ways.

Also for whatever reason, for me personally, I got WAY more into biting and I gotta bite stuff now. It's not even conscious lol.

Over the years of HRT, it's less one big intense explosive moment and then a gross come down and it's more like a big wave and a lil crash and a big wave and a lil crash and builds up and up. And it's a lot more full body!

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago (3 children)

spoileralmost a year HRT and i still never got around to learning how to do an E orgasm so I keep doing the same masturbation routine i used to have but way less enjoyable now. i feel like i could do it if i learned to but i just never did

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 3 points 3 days ago

::: spoiler spoiler

this seems to be something that differs wildly from person to person as it's down to a lot more factors than just hormone regimen. personally getting on prog did wonders for my ability to please myself.

[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

spoilerI imagine myself wearing different sexy outfits and tbh that helps a lot. I also find that pressure works better than friction now (both together is good)

2 years into HRT and I enjoy masturbation and sex WAY more than before. It's not one and done anymore, I can go for hours it's amazing.

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] Angel@hexbear.net 15 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Give my rizz some energy please... spirit-bomb

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 4 days ago

I'm writing every day now and it's helping my mental wellbeing so much. aubrey-happy

Got addicted to a video game for a few days earlier this week (why can I not like things normally instead of feeling like I have to spend 12 hours a day on it) and lost the habit which made me feel terrible, but now I'm back into it. doggirl-thumbsup

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

spoilerStill upset. Was talking with someone about diy and like- even if it is actually none of my families business they'll still probably at very least be hurt if they find out that way. They might feel like I was "going behind their back" or being "underhanded" (seriously we have to start gayroller-2000 cissies). And like, they're right, that is how they'll feel. I don't really have any hope of moving out in the next year either. Obviously I could start, wait a few months, and then come out and tell them what I am doing but idk. I hate it. I don't want to come out. They won't see me as my gender, its going to be so awkward, genuinely just horrible. Its not even just me at the house either. Cried. idk what to do.
spoiler major bad idea/cognitohazard So chat gippity released a new model semi recently with image gen- I don't understand the technical details well enough to explain them here but it sounds really neat. Anyway I obviously told it to feminize me and change a few things (just hair and glasses) and isaac-cry holy fuck I'd be so happy if I looked like that. Its not realistic, at very least it shrank my nose, but damn. What could have been...
dysphoria, I brief siinstead of looking like that- like a woman- I look disgusting. Actually revolting. I literally have to figure/get my shit together regarding a couple self care things because that picture (the original) makes me want to kms. Imagine other people seeing me like that, imagine asking to be called a woman looking like that.
But I have been feeling less depressed lately, still just this type of stuff...

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

trans-heart

Care-Comrade

spoilerMake up, like contouring can do some pretty major work! You'd be surprised how much you can morph how your face looks with full face. Also your face will change with HRT, it's takes its sweet time and it feels subtle for years but how I look now vs 4 years ago is a pretty big difference. Like, my lips look different. It's a whole thing.

They almost certainly won't notice changes from your hrt for at least a year, maybe longer. It's sad but there are girls who do hrt for years and their spouse doesn't notice πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ I knew my mom would be accepting but coming out was still very hard. It's never really easy and not scary, I wish it was. Every once in a while, we'll get a trans kid at work and some of their parents might be pretty conservative and rural but they love their kid - so they might not get what being trans is, but they love their kid and don't want them to hurt. It's not always a story where there's a lot of pain and abuse and abandonment - that can happen, which is part of what makes it scary, but it's not the only one.

FaceApp was one of the things that broke my egg lol. I was looking through old pictures, trying to clear out pics of my ex, and I found my faceapp pics from like 2018 (oh yes I was a very cis guy who just loved how looking like a girl made me feel πŸ™„). I actually dont look that far off from it now! There's some stuff I would need facial feminization surgery to get, but it'd be more subtle. You'll be surprised, eggnog. Stay alive β™‘

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

meow-hug

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Thank you comrade meow-hug

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

You're welcome but I'm sorry I don't really know what to say. Imo, any kid's gender or orientation shouldn't be a parent's business outside of supporting them but I hope they come around and end up being cool

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 3 points 3 days ago

:meow-hug:

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago

*hugggggggies*

[–] buh@hexbear.net 14 points 4 days ago

It’s all been downhill for Eastern Europe ever since they went CIS in 1991. Coincidence?

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Honestly polish with glitter or stuff in it I think is just top coat, serves me well since I don't really need to put anything else on it but the see throughness means I gotta pair it with another color underneath.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My favorite one is just a top coat, pretty transparent and glittery. I don't really have a matching purple so I just throw a few coats on and call it good.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

exercise

slammer

pflp-octoplushie SORRY BUT THE DEPRESSION WILL STOP gigachad

qin-shi-huangdi-fireball qin-shi-huangdi-fireball qin-shi-huangdi-fireball

ANOTHER 5KKK RUN DOWN

qin-shi-huangdi-fireball qin-shi-huangdi-fireball qin-shi-huangdi-fireball

UNLIMITED GENOCIDE ON THE SEDENTARY WORLD

top-cop sad-boi biden-forgor stalin-gun-1 stalin-gun-2

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Thoughts on estradiol cypionate vs. enanthate? I'm looking to switch to injections and want one of the once weekly formulations.

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Someone made a Create: Estrogen submod for Minecraft Create which adds E pills and patches which give you the power to dash jump. I always get a kick out of people trying to make the game more realistic.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 4 days ago (8 children)

dysphoria, sadReally feeling awful about lost time and early trepidation keeping me from transitioning earlier and pausing when my mental health got really bad for years

I could be so much happier with myself at this point in my life and knowing there's a version of me out there in an alternate timeline that doesn't feel like they've wasted too much time and will never feel happy with their body now is really fucking me up

I spent the day with my best friend and their partner and I had a great time but seeing them be in love together made me feel really alone personally even though they're both really sweet to me and weren't excluding me at all

I just really envy their affection for each other and their emotional intimacy and feeling like that wouldn't be possible for me because of how uncomfortable and awkward I am in my body makes me feel like I'm gonna be alone forever and I want a loving partner so bad

I know it's not a good idea to be desperate for affection and validation seeking a relationship because of how easy it can be to overlook red flags but I feel like there's an important part of my sense of self and gender as a nurturing and supportive person who really craves someone to lean on and feel safe with and appreciated who will cuddle me and make me feel like it's gonna be alright

Idk I'm really emotional tonight sorry

catgirl-cry

load more comments (8 replies)
load more comments
view more: β€Ή prev next β€Ί