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Limestone is a common type of sedimentary rock which I find uncommonly interesting! It's mostly calcium carbonate, which is also what eggshells πŸ₯š, seashells 🐚, and pearls πŸ¦ͺ are made out of.

In places where it rains a lot, limestone erodes easily, which results in simply gorgeous landscapes such as:

HαΊ‘ Long Bay in Vietnam

Tsingy de Bemaraha National Park in Madagascar

The Li River in China

Additionally, the world's longest (Mammoth) and deepest (~~Veryovkina~~ Krubera is once again the world's deepest cave, thank you to SockOlm for pointing that out) cave systems are both found in limestone formations

Mammoth Cave in the United States

Veryovkina Cave in Georgia/Abkhazia/Russia (disputed territory)

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HαΊ‘ Long Bay https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Halong_Bay_in_Vietnam.jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Tsingy de Bemaraha National Park https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Tsingy_de_Bemaraha.jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Li River https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Li-Flussfahrt-160-Huegel-2012-gje.jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Mammoth Cave https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Mammoth_Cave_Rotunda_(USGS_Lwt02830).jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Veryovkina Cave https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Veryovkina_cave._Babatunda_pit.jpg#mw-jump-to-license


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[–] buh@hexbear.net 13 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Do people ever go from prescription to DIY HRT? I'm thinking of doing so. I'm on prescription, but I already have all the stuff I need to start DIY, and I'm not happy with the prescription system rn, so I'm thinking on just switching already. There's:

  • the general inconvenience of dealing with bureaucracies to sign off on your shit every few months. the very last refill involved me going back and forth with the doctor and pharmacy for a few days before I could pick it up.
  • the awkwardness of picking up estrogen as someone who still presents male in public. I guess this will theoretically go away when I eventually start making more changes in how I look...
  • I temporarily got cut off last week because the people running PP AZ are a bunch of hoes for trump, and I don't trust that this won't happen again in the long term. To me, this to me is the strongest reason.
  • Price - I pay like $33ish per month for what I'm prescribed, but a $75 vial of injectable estradiol should last me at least 6 months, if not more.

I'm probably still going to stick with PP so I can get blood tests, and advice, and prescriptions for other things as needed (like progesterone if/when the time comes, or estradiol if my DIY sources abruptly shut down).

Also if I do switch, should I bother getting hormone levels tested right before switching? I'm due for the first one since I started only a few months ago, but I've read that switching methods can change hormone levels, so I feel like whatever measurements I might get would be meaningless in the long run if I switch.

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

Do people ever go from prescription to DIY HRT?

I just did after more than two years on prescription HRT and almost 3 years of presenting fem in public, partially because i want to be prepared if trans rights get rolled back in my country, partially because injections are extremely hard to get a prescription for around here and i'm tired of gel and partially because of an ideological commitment to being a gender outlaw. Also ngl there's just something exciting about sticking a needle in my leg and shooting up hormones. Obviously YMMV on this, i have friends who have a pronounced fear of needles and needed a ton of emotional support when they started injecting, but they still pulled it off.

I have a lot of friends who went from prescription to DIY for similar reasons, it actually seems more common in my circle than the other way around. I mean, most trans people i know have at some point DIYed for at least a few days when they couldn't refill a script on time and a friend helped them out with a bottle of gel or a few pills they had left over. I find it very rare that people who are actually part of an IRL trans community and transition hormonally never have some brush with DIY culture. It's almost unavoidable simply as a safety net.

I'm still unsure if i will tell my endo about it, i have no idea if she supports DIY, but so far i'm very happy with the results. I've been on HRT long enough to know what the range of my levels on gel + CPA looked like, gel can vary more than injections and i've been anywhere from 90 to 300 ug/ml on the same dose, interval and test time. So when i get new measurements in a month, it will be easy for me to compare. But i do want that as a control measure. Honestly wish i could DIY the blood testing as well.

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

I used to get it at a local lgbt health clinic, but that also came with seeing a therapist because I was institutionalized recently at the time.
So I stopped because of that and for years my access to hrt was kind of shaky, sometimes I would have it sometimes I wouldn’t based on if I could pay for DIY which was more expensive.
Idk how expensive the clinic would be without insurance tho as I was using my parents at the time.
Anyway, I’m stabley on DIY now at a pretty high dose that I think is better than anything the clinic would have given me.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

The grey market for DIY HRT is just part of how trans healthcare stays resilient in the face of gatekeeping or full obstruction. Feel free to get on it for any reason.

Having it from the medical system is gonna make things more convenient mostly down to how you gotta pay for DIY HRT (it's annoying). Also easier to get a doctor to monitor labs. But having a little DIY stache is nice, plus the actual know how of how to get it vrs the theoretical know how via a guide (experience is a good teacher).

It'd be nice to know where your levels are at now after you've been on this dose, regardless of if you're gonna change route or method or whatever. Everybody bodys is different and metabolized E in its own way, so it'll be nice to have some evidence on how your body deals with E! It'll give you and your doctor an idea of how you responded to the dose you're at now which is nice to know even if you're taking something different later. There are tools online that can give you an idea of your levels after switching, and the WPATH somewhere has recommendations for bumping or down based on E levels across routes (like sublingual, transdermal, SQ, IM) which'll also help you get an idea of what your dose ought to be. I have no idea where it is though

Get your levels checked, if you're switching to DIY then switch and after, check your levels again in like 6 to 12 weeks and adjust as necessary.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

But having a little DIY stache is nice

I have never seen stash have an e on the end 😭 that makes it mean something completely different

But having a little DIY mustache is nice

Anyway sorry I just thought that was funny

Yea I've definitely heard of people doing this. If Planned Parenthood will still do tests/prescribe prog I don't see why not. I'd rather diy then get a script too, and having a stable supply is a big part of that. Having a few months of meds vs years just seems like no contest to me.

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 15 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I like being the cold girlfriend

You sound like a really chill gal, cool even. lea-finger-guns

[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago

strength, exerciseIve been playing it low and slow with weightlifting recently, been keeping my weights low and my reps high (8-12 reps per set) to adjust slowly, but today I pushed my curls to 3x8 20 pound dumbbells and fuck that felt so good. I had to push and really try to get those reps while maintaining good form, it felt amazing to challenge and push myself and really feel my body put in a lot of work to move weight. I feel so powerful pulling off harder lifts, the feeling of strength is kind of intoxicating

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 14 points 4 days ago (1 children)

She Loves to Cook, and She Loves to Eat except it's just me, I'm alone and I'm both of them.

[–] buh@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago

waow-based

get you a girl who can do both

[–] buh@hexbear.net 14 points 4 days ago

it's 4/20 in moscow stalin-smokin

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago

face doomingwhen i start looking, im gonna tell every ffs surgeon in the first sentence that i want lefort to remove my horseface until i find one unscrupulous enough to agree

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

vegan mac and cheese boxes are nice but same issue that regular mac and cheese in that the flavor to noodle ratio is way off, have to add more noodles to balance it out

[–] SockOlm@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I've made the terrible mistake of switching text editors. I've done nothing with my free time but configure emacs for the past week doggirl-tears

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[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 11 points 4 days ago (2 children)

misgenderingI think the funniest form of misgendering is when people call my skirt a kilt. I wear skirts a lot, and, to be fair, a lot of my skirts are plaid (though they definitely aren't kilts). And sometimes when strangers compliment my outfits, they say things like "I like your kilt" or "nice kilt, that's the right word, right?". Like they see me wearing what is clearly a skirt, and want to compliment my outfit, but I guess decide that I look like a man too much for me to possibly be wearing a skirt, so they call it a kilt to not insult me, I guess. But that ends up being kind of insulting, although I don't think people are doing it out of malice. Idk, kind of funny tbh

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[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago (7 children)
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[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Im out here generating content and engagement

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[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 6 points 4 days ago

exercisecurls 4 the girls

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 4 days ago (8 children)

any other trans women develop an extremely limerent obsessive relationship with an exceptionally pretty girl in high school who barely gave two thoughts about you to the point where it emotionally destroyed you back when you were a repressed egg or was that just me?

I try not to think about her much tbh. She was older and definitely not interested. The thing I try not to obsess about is if I told her I wished I was a girl. She would have known what that meant when I didn't.

I'm not sure what the split between crush, envy, and friend I liked and wanted to do more with was. Definitely remember being upset we didn't hang out much.. but she's moved away now so I try not to think too much.

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 17 points 5 days ago

Oh my god fucking liberals and fucking cis people. I don't have the energy to post details but good lord I'm so frustrated rn

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 19 points 5 days ago (11 children)
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[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago (2 children)

The Bastion Enjoyer has logged on

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 3 points 3 days ago

...planetside2?

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago (5 children)
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[–] MLRL_Commie@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I have yazidi acquaintances in my area (not gonna tell more than that for opsec) who yesterday told me they were celebrating Easter excitedly. Any comrades know much about Yazidi culture/Religion wanna help me find some sources to understand this a bit better? They're super nice, and I'm sure they'd explain if I asked, but I'm kind of embarrassed to know them so long and just now realize I know less about their religion than I thought. And Wikipedia is useless, and other sites that come up on Google are giving very conflicting information.

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[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

Ive been reading a latin text book for an hour
It is how you say
difficultātem

^I^ hate ~insomnia~ and ^I^ hate ~my~ trauma ^.-^*

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 7 points 4 days ago (6 children)

Who is better: Billy Joel or The Beach Boys?

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