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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (12 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20)
peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27)
BountifulEggnog* (7/28 - 8/3)    
oscardejarjayes* (8/4 - 8/10)
Seryph (8/11 - 8/17)
Shaleesh (8/18 - 8/24)
GayTuckerCarlson* (8/25 - 8/31)
Eco* (9/1 - 9/7)
nemmybun (9/8 - 9/14)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 23 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I went on a date with a reaaaaalllyyyy cute guy last night. We talked for like 3 hours and he kissed me goodbye. So forearms were like double the size of mine I was in a puddle at the end, this is my first time that I’ve had a guy make me feel this way and I’m like what the hell, how have I missed this my whole life 😭

I feel like I’ve always been attracted to men in kinda a different way, like they were my friend and we were the same, while women were like this other species, but i really like it flipped around lol. 😝

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[–] Octagonprime@hexbear.net 23 points 2 weeks ago (15 children)

Shout-out to the people who encouraged me when I posted in the trans megathread when my egg was cracking like 7-8 months ago. 6 months on hrt now and Im so much happier :D

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[–] axont@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Henlo mega thread. I am nonbinary

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[–] onandrah1@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago

Hey loves πŸ’œ

I wanted to give a little update, we made it through the hospital thanks to you all, but now my sisters and I are really struggling to find a safe place to stay. Right now we’re stuck somewhere temporary that’s not safe at all, and it’s scary not knowing what could happen next.

UNHCR told us to stay in Juba while they keep working on resettlement, but there’s no safe place here, and we can’t go back to Gorom camp because the host community doesn’t want us anymore. We’re trying to raise around $700–850 so we can get a small apartment for the four of us, with money for transport, rent, bedding, food, and the meds my sisters still need.

We’ve only raised $66 so far, so we still have a long way to go. If you can help us by donating, sharing, or even giving advice on safe places, it would mean everything to us right now. My mutual aid link is in my profile. Thank you so much for being here for us. Love you all so much. πŸ’™πŸ™πŸΏ

Current mood

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

dogs are aware of how cursed the fourth of july is as a holiday

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (5 children)
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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Down with summer! catgirl-hiss

Up with autumn! catgirl-heart

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[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

cw: relationship sadposting

so it's been a year since I started HRT and my wife and partner of 25 years has not warmed up to me being a woman. To the contrary the softer I have become the less interested she is in sharing affection. My irl cis friend says that i need to stick a fork in this relationship and when i told the wife she didn't argue she admitted that it's gotten harder not easier. But she doesn't want to split up, we are co parents and i'm the house wife!

But i'm so alone, i had a gf for a while (poly not cheating) but that fizzled out so i'm gonna just have to try again. I don't have any family and few friends and im desperate to be squeezed and feel connected. I downloaded a new trans dating app with a dumb name and there's so many cute girls in my area and while I may never pass and I may be old I'm still cute and i'm super soft now and i like myself so that's gotta help.

I don't really want someone else i want my wife but the spells i tried didn't work and i can't really think of anything else to try. Sometimes you make mistakes. The worst part is i feel like i stole something from her by killing off her husband. blah blah blah thanks for letting me vent kiddos. i love you bears so much :)

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Got a few web friends to use my real pronouns and my new name. It just makes me feel euphoric, but somehow still feels wrong. Maybe some internalized transphobia or just the disphoria (probably because I haven't started any part of the transition yet). But I'm happy anyways for getting some validation.

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Gender is fake but also im a woman but also im not a woman i just do woman but also theres no such thing as woman but also but also but also

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

about to eat some really spicy noodles, if I never post again yall know what happened πŸ˜”

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[–] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I've never seen cacti sprouts before. They're so cute! floppy-parrot

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Coworker gave me a hair tie and another put my hair up for me kitty-cri

Low key have shed a few tears about it... just really nice of them to help me and feels kind of like something women would usually do for other women. Not out to them or anything but still you know.. needed something nice to happen to me today too.

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago

transphobiaImagine deadnaming someone in your birthday message to her

I wish I could thanos snap these people into a pocket dimension so I don't have do deal with them. Fucking hell

Up with trans. Down with cis

In other news I got invited to a thing on Friday that I'm suuuuuper excited about. I'm going to get to flex my gay muscles

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Coffee coffee

Black coffee, Brown coffee

Make rumbly in my tummy catgirl-cry

Make my head feel funny catgirl-huh

Coffee coffee

A cup of no good coffee cool-bean

Not sweet like toffee

Not creamy Not dreamy

Coffee coffee

taken at 23*

I feel like puking walter-breakdown

*hour of the day, 11 PM

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Is it possible to do HRT badly enough that it permanently messes up your transition or is it a kind of thing where it would just mean it takes more time?

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 17 points 2 weeks ago

just takes more time

unless u seriously mess up for like years n get osteoperosis

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

We had two guys from warring gangs sat next to each other lol, I had to convince them the hospital is a truce zone and to leave the fights and taunts for when theyre patched up

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Working with dudes in construction really just breaks whatever crushes I have on them, I said it before but guys getting angry and shouty when the heat gets turned up is ugh. I get being frustrated but like chill or at minimum don't lash out, hoping this puts a stop to my gay dreams towards them I really don't wanna be a therapist or something.

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)
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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I would love to limit my dating pool to only trans people at this point, but there's just not many enough around for that to feel like a viable strategy

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[–] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

CW for Government TransphbiaApparently the state department is intentionally defying the court order to let trans people have correct gender markers. Past few weeks have been pretty tough and I keep catching L's. I can't wait until I get that shit in the mail and have yet another emotional episode about it. Im mostly angry at myself because none of the bad stuff would be happening if I just stopped fucking up all the time.

The new blue sugar free monster tastes fucking amazing and I can't get enough of it.

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[–] OthelloII@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)

always weird to find protest/event pictures on myself online, especially reddit, still not used to it. not posted by my party i mean, like from random people.

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Is Better Call Saul and Breaking Bad trans culture?

[–] onandrah1@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

πŸ†˜ Trans Sisters Attacked – Need Urgent Help

Hey friends πŸ’œ We were attacked in our camp just for being trans. Our shelters burned, and some of my sisters were hurt. We covered hospital bills, but now we really need help finding a safe place to stay in Juba.

We’ve raised $102 so far, but still need about $700. Any share or donation means the world to us. Thank you for being here. The mutual aid Link is in my profile.thank you for taking time to read this πŸ’™πŸ™πŸΏ....

[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

TONY STARK was able to build his gender in a cave! With a BOX OF SCRAPS

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Learning all the counties of England doggirl-smart

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

wtf... someone keeps peeing in my bed while i'm sleeping. what the fuck

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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Male tomboy with a little bit of E busts it down agender style, are they goated with the sauce?

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